Your getting married, the bells will chime and confetti will fly. This is what you’ve waited for, all that time spent searching for that special flare, the spark, that infamous puzzle piece falling into place, your one, your only, the one that knows how you like your eggs, where you like to buy your books and what songs make you want to get up and dance and knows that dancing somewhat resembles that of Ricky Gervais. That someone that is so perfect for you and that you share something with that is unlike anything or anyone else. And it is this individual connection that leads people to write their own vows and say what exactly the great love that they have means to ‘them’.

Sometimes fear makes people stick to the Status Quo, particularly if you lack a particular poetic or J.K.Rowling-esque way with words. But fear not, there are some suggestions that are a fail safe for beautiful and original vows.

To start, your vows must be romantic, evocative writing is always the best writing that has meaning and brings feelings and memories rushing to the surface, like moth to flame, this especially for the comics and class clowns out there doesn’t mean you have it all wrapped up though, your vows must ooze profundity , ‘I promise to always put the cap back on the tooth paste and make his eggs sunny side up’ hardly screams ‘forever and always’ like ‘I promise to love your heart, soul and mind as mine till my dying day.’ Love, honour, cherish and adore, are always a great way to go upon initiating your Shakespearian masterpiece. Decide what you want your vows to convey,what feelings you want and best some up your relationship, think about key words that provoke this kind of a feeling and jot them down, even taking inspiration from films, songs, books or poetry can be a help. All that’s left is for you to put pen to paper and let the magic from your heart and head combine into a life changing piece that you truly can love, honour and cherish forever.

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