Some couples believe that entering into marriage without considerable preparation is like opening a business without any form of planning. It is a sad but very real fact that up to 50% of marriages result in divorce, with even less being truly contented long term. Of course engaged couples and newly weds don’t ever imagine that they will one day be contributing to these figures, but, unfortunately relying on love and luck alone to ensure the success of your marriage is not always enough.

It is believed that pre-marital counselling can minimize the risk of a marriage breaking down by around 30% and can result in achieving a considerably happier married life. Marriage research studies have also shown that it can also help lessen the stress of the pre-wedding run up.

Contrary to popular belief Pre-marital counselling is not therapy. It is a form of education originating from the idea that it is essential to continue to fortify your relationship and to be prepared to react constructively to the future trials and disagreements that the majority of couples inevitably encounter throughout their married life.

Typically couples who do obtain pre-marital counselling receive it from their religious guide. This advice can vary in content but often covers expectations, communication advice and recommendations for resolving conflicts. These sessions can also vary in quantity, from simply one or sometimes two sessions to a complete succession of meetings. Non-religious, professional qualified counselors can also supply expert pre-marital counselling and advice.

Tags: divorce, premarital advice, premarital counselling

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